Many leaders do not know and do not use in their practice the first stage of the conversation - its beginning, which often does not allow them to achieve the desired result.
The beginning of the discussion is useful in order to get the following results:
- establishing contact with the interlocutor;
- creating a normal atmosphere for work;
- drawing the interlocutor's attention to the problem under discussion;
- the interest of the interlocutor, active participation in the discussion;
- interception of the initiative.
In management theory, there are several typical methods when a leader fails at the beginning of a conversation, using the following expressions:
- ... I'm sorry if I'm bothering you...
- ... I would like to analyze my proposal again...
- ... If you have time, we could discuss it...
Failure also leads to the use of expressions that the interlocutor neglects about the importance of his work.:
- I think we will solve your question in 5 minutes.;
- I also accidentally remembered this incident.
In theory and in practice, there are many methods and procedures for starting a conversation, of which the following can be distinguished:
1) the method of reducing tension, tightening - in many cases, the main tool can be a joke, a compliment, a few general questions;
2) the method of "catching", preposition or smoothing - the manager briefly explains the created situation, and also looks for an excuse, smooths out to start a discussion - there may be some events, problems that require immediate resolution, etc.;
3) the method of stimulating imagination - the leader attracts the attention of subordinates to the problems that will be discussed, and requires the interlocutor to offer his alternative solution.;
4) The direct method is a short, concise leader who communicates the reasons for the discussion and proceeds to the resolution stage.
In order to attract the attention of the interlocutor and create a normal climate of discussion, the leader must take into account the following details, "small details" that allow him to achieve excellent results:
- introductory phrases are clear, concise, and rich in content;
- outside, the driver should predispose the subordinate to a frank conversation.;
- respect for the interlocutor, attention to suggestions, his suggestions;
- the use of compliments, moral incentives (Abraham Lincoln: "We are all sensitive to compliments");
- during the discussion, in order to be interested in the opinion of a subordinate, you would ask for advice - even if it is not used. Jeśli chcesz grać wygodnie, wybierz
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